It was a month ago when I was just few words away from abusing my boss. He was yelling at me for something I didn’t do or for that matter it was not really an issue. It’s a common habit of bosses; they ask questions and don’t want answers. However, I don’t know how but I controlled myself and didn’t say a word to him. Later, unexpectedly he was sorry.
At times it is really hard for us to hold when something/someone hurts our ego. They say’ think before you speak’. I always wanted an answer like exactly what to think. We are angry, paying attention to a conversation which is probably overstuffed with non-social words, what can we possibly think that will hold us back. If this is an unsolved mystery to you too, then here is the solution. Ask yourself-
Does this need to be said?
Does this need to be said by ME?
Does this need to be said by me right NOW?